Love never been so easy??!!!

I just have a late phone call from my male western friend asking some questions about his love life.

What would you suggest him??

First of all, please hear his dilemma story.

He has a crush on a western girl in a Master Degree class. They have known each other for about 4-5 months so far. They are chatting long and often everyday. After class, the girl still wants to hang out with him more and always initiate it. And now he feels like he?s in love with her, but big problem, she has a boyfriend of 2 years. He likes her a lot but feel that he shouldn?t ruin their relationship. But the girl is still keeping initiating contact with him and want to spend more time with him after class.

My friend asked me ?what should I do?. I think I am in love with her and I think she feels the same. Should I make a move and ask her what?s going on here or should I just leave it and move on with my life?? But because of her, I don?t feel like meeting anyone else. So forget about dating a new person.?.

He also told me that he asked one of his male friends for his thought. And his friend?s advice was ?You should make a move. She?s waiting for you to do so. She wouldn?t leave her boyfriend if she is not sure that you and her will be together after all?.

Huhhh? that?s interesting? I listened and felt like how come these 2 guys don?t seem to pick up a very important point here??!! Maybe this is the reason that that famous dating guidebook is named ?Men are from Mars and Women are from Venus???!! We really think differently or it?s only me!!!

Well, this is what I see when he finished his story.

v Absolutely my friend is in trouble and has no clue what to do now.
v Very likely, the girl has a crush on him too.
v She is still with her boyfriend.

I told my friend that ?Okay, you can talk to her about this. But likely I think she would say that she likes hanging out with you and she even might say that she has a crush on you. But then the issue will come next to her boyfriend.

What do you think about a girl who has boyfriend and still doing this? First of all, do you want to ruin their relationship? And if she chooses you, then you will be happy about this? And you will like that your relationship starts from someone else heart broken?? And thinking about that.. what kind of girl is she that she wants to be with 2 guys at the same time?? If she wants to spend more time with you, she should come clean and finish with her boyfriend first if she really likes you and if she?s a nice decent lady. And if she can do it once, don?t you think she may do it again with you???

Okay, come back to my question. What would you suggest him??

Love never been so easy? even for guys or girls and it will be always like this. Because love, it?s all we all need.