Dating Advice from a Good Farang Businessman in Thailand to Thai Girls ka : )

A FARANG MALE FRIEND WHO ONE OF MY FRIEND WORKS WITH SENT HER THE EMAIL ADVISING HER ON DATING WITH FARANG GUY.

I find it?s so true from my perspective and experience in this matchmaking business. So LADIES, please read this, it?s worth your 10 minutes!! : )

XOXO,
Bee

1. ON THE FIRST DATE DONT REVEAL TO MUCH INFORMATION ABOUT YOURSELF-AT MOST 10% - EVEN IF THE MAN IS BEING OPEN ABOUT HIMSELF..... KEEP THE CONVERSATION LIGHT....EXAMPLE -WORK,HOBBIES,INTERSTS...KEEP HIM GUESSING ABOUT YOU...IF HE WANTS TO KNOW MORE THEN HE WILL HAVE TO INVITE YOU ON ANOTHER DATE.

2.DONT BE TO SERIOUS ON YOUR DATES....BE FRIENDLY AND CONFIDENT AND POSITIVE EASY GOING.

3.IF HE LIKES YOU HE WILL CONTACT YOU OR KHUN BEE- TRUST ME THAT WHEN I SAY IF A MAN WANTS YOU HE WILL FIND A WAY TO CONTACT YOU....NEVER RING HIM FIRST OR OFFER YOUR DETAILS....MEN DONT LIKE IT.

4.DONT EXPECT TO FIND LOVE ON YOUR FIRST DATE...TAKE THE TIME TO GET TO KNOW MANY DIFFERENT MEN ON DATES...AND WAIT UNTILL YOU FIND SOMEONE WHERE IT FEELS CORRECT....DONT LOWER YOUR STANDARDS OR EXPECTATIONS FOR ANYBODY....IT WILL MAKE YOU UNHAPPY IN THE FUTURE IF YOU ARE WITH A MAN FOR THE SAKE OF JUST BEING IN A RELATIONSHIP AND NOT LONELY....THERE ARE MANY GOOD MEN OUT THERE YOU HAVE TO JOIN CLUBS,SOCIAL EVENTS,TRAVEL,DATE,MEET NEW PEOPLE TO FIND HIM- IT WILL HAPPEN BUT ONLY YOU CAN MAKE IT HAPPEN BYE DOING SOMETHING ABOUT IT.

5.REMEBER YOU HAVE A BIG ADVANTAGE IN THAT YOU SPEAK A HIGH LEVEL OF ENGLISH COMPARED TO OTHER THAI PEOPLE AND ARE VERY EDUCATED AND CAN TALK ABOUT MANY TOPICS OF CONVERSATION OTHER LADIES CANNOT- THIS IS EXTREMLY ATTRACTIVE TO THE EDUCATED FARANG MALE BECAUSE HE WONT HAVE MET MANY LADIES LIKE YOU BEFORE...AND HE WILL REALLY LIKE THIS.

6.THAI LADIES SEEM TO BE MORE FEMININE AND GENTLE THAN MANY FARANG LADIES...THIS IS A BIG REASON WHY FARANG MEN LIKE THAI LADIES...JUST REMBER THAT THE FARANG MAN WILL GENERALLY BE LOOKING FOR A THAI LADY WHO IS THE OPPOSITE OF THE FARANG LADY....I.E SOMEBODY WHO ACTS LIKES A LADY AND IS
NOT AGGRESSIVE OR BOSSY....FARANG MEN LIKE EASY GOING WOMEN AND SWEET.

7.EVEN IF YOU DIDNT DO ANYTHING WRONG ON A DATE...IT DOESNT MATTER....HUMAN BEING ARE ALL MADE DIFFERENT...WHAT ONE PERSON LIKES...ANOTHER WON"T...DONT DWELL ON IT...JUST MOVE ON TO YOUR NEXT DATE AND ENJOY MEETING NEW PEOPLE.

8.LEARN FROM YOUR DATING EXPERIENCES WHAT YOU LIKE AND DONT LIKE ABOUT MEN...THIS WILL HELP YOU BUILD A MENTAL PICTURE OF THE TYPE OF PERSON YOU WOULD LIKE TO EVENTUALLY MEET.SPEAK TO KHUN BEE FOR FEEDBACK ABOUT WHAT THE DATE SAID ABOUT YOU...THIS WILL HELP YOU IMPROVE AREAS OF YOURSELF
THAT MAY OR MAY NOT NEED TO CHANGE.

I am very pleased!

Hello khrap,

Thank for the the very good profile that you propose me. I am very pleased! I am always happy with your service. That guy is right, it's not difficult to find a girfriend in Bangkok, but the nice one with good education, upper class, speak good English is quite rare to find on your own.

Have a nice day Khrap.
Tony

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Stereoptye Personality that Most Guys are looking for..are mostly like below ka : )

Hello Khun Bee khrap,

I hope you're doing well now.

Do you remember me? : )

I contact you because I would like to renew for a package of 9 dates. I remind you my "specifications" na khrap

Physical : thai-chinese, muai-muai, slim, attractive, fashion, white skin.

Personality : หวานๆ, funny, polite, romantic, na-rak na-rak, not too western oriented, acting thai style, good family background (upper-class), good level of education.

Could you tell me what I should do now? Thank you na khrap.

Man

I am very happy with your work and now I am dating Khun Tam exclusively.

Thank you so much K. Bee for your great work.

You are very professional and very much engaged in helping me finding my lady. And I can feel that you are very caring all along the process. Thank you again so much for working so hard for me. I am very happy with your work and now I am dating Khun Tam exclusively. We are having great time together.

Best regards,
Simon